What to avoid doing on social media during your divorce

What to avoid doing on social media during your divorce

Article published by Stowe Family Law

In this article, I explain why it’s critically important to handle your social media presence with care during a divorce—and how easily one post can undermine your position.

I share three key areas you should actively avoid:

  • Don’t follow your ex: I encourage you to resist the urge to check how they’re doing online, because seeing only the highlight reel can deepen hurt and fuel comparison instead of healing.
  • Don’t seek advice from strangers online: I point out that social forums and group chats may amplify bias, spread misinformation and lack the context your case needs—so turning to them instead of a qualified professional can be risky.
  • Don’t share your divorce story publicly: I show how posting about your separation, your ex’s behaviour or your emotional state can linger online, be seen by children, future employers or even a court—and undermine your credibility or your children’s wellbeing.

If you’re navigating a separation and wondering whether to go silent online or just cautious, this article gives you a clear roadmap. I invite you to read on and discover how curbing your social posts now may protect both your legal position and emotional recovery.

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