Two cultures, one family – Cross-cultural co-parenting after separation

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What happens when parents from two different cultural backgrounds separate – but continue to raise children together? In this episode, I’m joined by Marcie Shaoul, founder of the award-winning The Co-Parent Way and best-selling author of The Co-Parenting Method: Six Steps to Raise Happy Kids After Separation and Divorce (Penguin, 2025). A certified coach and co-parent herself, Marcie brings her trademark blend of warmth, practicality and clarity to the complex realities of cross-cultural co-parenting.

Together, we explore how cultural backgrounds shape co-parenting dynamics – from differing views on discipline, education, gender roles or religion, to how we communicate and resolve conflict. We look at how to navigate family pressure, manage expectations, and avoid misunderstandings when language, emotional norms, or upbringing differ. You’ll also hear Marcie’s advice on how to:

* Support children in embracing both cultures without feeling torn between them

* Create consistency and stability for your children when values and routines differ

* Honour both parents’ heritages while putting the child’s emotional needs first

* Prepare children emotionally for a cross-cultural relocation

Whether you’re co-parenting across borders, beliefs or traditions, this episode offers thoughtful, practical guidance for raising confident, culturally-connected kids after separation.

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