Article for Only Mums and Dads
In this article, I explore how to approach summer holiday planning as a separated or divorced parent — and why getting ahead of the arrangements can make all the difference.
I look at how early communication and shared decision-making help establish clarity around who the children will stay with, when, and where they’ll go. I explain how putting a written plan in place — even a simple document or shared calendar — can prevent confusion, disappointment and friction during what should be a fun break for the kids.
I also highlight the importance of factoring in travel abroad, parental consent, handing over documents, and arranging check-ins so the other parent doesn’t feel shut out. These kinds of logistics are often overlooked but can become flash-points.
Finally, I invite you to keep your child’s experience at the heart of the conversation: the aim is not to “win” holiday time, but for the children to feel secure, loved, and able to make lasting memories with both parents. With thought, flexibility and a little forethought, the summer break can become a genuine opportunity rather than another source of co-parenting stress.