Article for Stowe Family Law
In this article, I explore the hidden complexities of private school fees for separated parents — and how easily you can fall into the “school‑fee trap” without even realising it.
I start by showing why phrases like “we’ll split the school fees 50/50” or “you cover school expenses” are far more ambiguous than they sound. It’s not just the tuition we’re talking about — things like enrolment deposits, uniforms, IT devices, residential trips and extras often get left out of the conversation. If not clearly defined, these can turn into unexpected costs and arguments further down the line.
Next, I walk you through practical steps to avoid the trap:
- Define what “school fees” actually covers — explicitly listing tuition and all associated costs.
- Agree in writing how increases will be handled each year (private school fees tend to rise) so you’re both prepared.
- Consider what happens if one parent’s financial situation changes — is there a review clause? What if your child drops certain services or moves school?
By taking these steps, you can reduce misunderstandings and protect both your finances and your co‑parenting relationship. If you’re separated or divorcing and have children in private education (or plan to), this article invites you to check your arrangements now, rather than discover issues when the bill comes in.