🎙️ The First Steps in Divorce: What Not to Do
Starting a divorce can feel overwhelming, emotional, and uncertain. In those early moments, it’s easy to react rather than reflect—making decisions driven by anger, fear, or urgency. But those first steps can shape the entire journey ahead, sometimes in ways that are difficult to reverse.
In this episode, I’m joined by Kate Stovold, Partner at The International Family Law Group LLP, to talk through the common mistakes to avoid when beginning a divorce. Together, we explore how to approach this life transition with clarity, intention, and a stronger sense of control.
💡 Whether you’re at the very start of considering divorce or already navigating the process, this episode will help you avoid costly missteps and lay stronger foundations for what comes next.
✨ In this episode, we cover:
🔹 Why asking for a divorce during an argument can backfire
🔹 The risks of filing without first having a conversation (and when exceptions apply)
🔹 Why changing the locks can escalate conflict ⚠️
🔹 The legal and emotional pitfalls of covert recordings 🎧
🔹 How choosing the right professional team makes all the difference
🔹 The importance of understanding the process before taking action
🔹 Why negotiations should wait until full financial disclosure 📄
🔹 The impact of involving friends, family, or children in taking sides 👨👩👧
🔹 Letting go of the idea of “emotional justice”
💬 Divorce is not just a legal process—it’s an emotional and strategic one too. Taking the time to pause, think, and seek the right support can make all the difference.
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