The Divorce Out-of-court Strategy
Why join D.O.S.?
What if you could make every divorce-related decision feeling calm, clear and in control?
I built this programme for people who want to take charge of their divorce and who want to manage as much of the process as they can themselves. If you want to avoid the overwhelm or the huge expense of full-blown legal battles, this programme is for you.
This step-by-step guide combines the practical, the legal, and the strategic information you will need. Members learn:
✔ what legal forms to submit and how
✔ how to negotiate fair and sustainable agreements out of court
✔ what the law says about finances, children and property
✔ how courts tend to treat those issues in real life.
Throughout the programme, I bring in guest experts who share their insights so you understand every aspect of the process from all angles.
Does this sound like you?
What's included?
45+ bitesize videos
Weekly Q&A sessions
24h access to resources
Community Whatsapp group
1 hour with a financial adviser
2 hours of individual coaching
PLUS bonus content for international divorce in each module
Why I created the D.O.S. programme
During the second iteration of my divorce (find out more here), I spent tens of thousands of pounds and a year of my life working with lawyers to do the negotiations for me. And guess what? I ended up with a deal I still regret to this day.
The problem was that I had no idea what I was doing. I didn’t understand what to expect, no one warned me against the mistakes to avoid and I didn’t know what the law said. So I completely lost control of the process and ended up in a legal quagmire.
But then I started thinking… What if I had had a clear strategy that told me exactly what to do and not to do, every step of the way? So I trained as a Certified Divorce Coach® and leveraged my 25 years of legal and business experience to create the Divorce Out-of-court Strategy. A clear strategy. For you. That works.
Let’s work together to ensure you remain in control of your divorce and avoid wasting your money and time reaching unsatisfactory settlements.
Finally a solution that gives you the support you need, without the spiralling costs.
What we'll cover
- How the legal system works in England and Wales with regards to divorce, finances and child arrangements
- What government forms to file, how and when
- Negotiation strategies that actually work
- When and how to bring in professionals such as lawyers — so you can stick to your budget.
How much do you want your divorce to cost you?
Litigated divorce
£35k
average spend
⚠️ 1-3 years in court
⚠️ Elevated conflict
⚠️ Harder coparenting
⚠️ Stress and uncertainty
⚠️ No control over outcomes
⚠️ No control over costs
D.O.S. Starter Pack
£197
+ VAT
From decision-making to filing for divorce in 4 steps
✅ 24/7 access to Module 1 lessons and resources
✅ Weekly Q&A sessions
✅ Community Whatsapp group
✅ Access to the D.O.S. professional directory
✅ 30 days access to all material
✅ 14-day trial period
Full D.O.S. Programme
£349/month
+ VAT
From decision-making to final court orders in 6 months
✅ 24/7 access to over 100 lessons and resources
✅ Weekly Q&A sessions
✅ Community Whatsapp group
✅ Access to the D.O.S. professional directory
✅ 6 months access to material
✅ 14-day trial period
✅ 2 hours private coaching with Chloe
✅ Private session with a divorce financial adviser at Evelyn Partners
But you might be thinking...
I can get this information for free on ChatGPT or Google
Divorce is the single most important transaction you are likely to complete in your life. “Probably fine” isn’t a strategy.
You wouldn’t wing it when buying a house or applying for a job—so why risk it with your future, your finances, and your children’s wellbeing?
Yes, you can search the internet or ask ChatGPT—but the D.O.S. Programme offers what they don’t:
- All the essential information in one place
- Guidance specific to England and Wales (no more mistakenly reading U.S. websites!)
- Expert insights you can trust—clear, practical, and based on years of experience.
- Mistakes to avoid, pros and cons of your options, and real-world experience you won’t find in a Google search.
This isn’t just information. It’s a strategy. A clear guide to help you stay in control and avoid costly errors.
You only get one chance to get it right. Make it count.
This will never work for us, my ex will only respond to legal action
Here’s something most people don’t realise: even if you go to court, you’ll still end up negotiating. In fact, 95% of cases settle through negotiation, without a judge making decisions for you.
The D.O.S. Programme is specifically designed to help you deal with a difficult ex. You’ll learn proven strategies to manage conflict, stay focused, and avoid getting stuck—no matter how your ex behaves.
Instead of reacting emotionally or giving up, you’ll be equipped with the tools to stay in control and move things forward.
You can’t change your ex—but you can change your approach. And that changes everything.
I can't afford to pay for professional help
Saying “I can’t afford help” may feel true now—but what’s the real cost of not getting support? Wasted time. Costly legal mistakes. A poor financial settlement. A parenting plan that doesn’t work.
The D.O.S. Programme costs less than four hours of a solicitor’s time—the same as what many would charge just to file your divorce paperwork, which is only the simplest part of the process. The rest—negotiating finances, parenting arrangements, communicating with your ex—is far more complex and where costly errors are made.
This is a life-altering legal process with long-term consequences. It’s normal to need help. The D.O.S. Programme gives you clear, affordable, reliable guidance—so you can make smart decisions and stay in control.
You can’t afford not to.
Why is this better than using a DIY divorce service?
You might think “there are services that do it all for you”—but actually, most of them only handle the paperwork. And while it’s helpful to have the admin done for you, that doesn’t solve the real challenge: agreeing what happens to your finances, your home, and your children.
The D.O.S. Programme covers every aspect of your divorce—not just forms. From money to parenting to rebuilding life after divorce, it gives you clear, strategic guidance so you can reach fair agreements and avoid costly mistakes.
Compare that to services like Amicable, who charge £3,450 just to document your financial order alone.
D.O.S. gives you the full picture—for a fraction of the cost.
I don't have time to review all this content
The D.O.S. Programme is fully self-paced—you can go through it in your own time, whenever it suits you. And here’s the truth: you’ll have to do most of this work anyway, whether you’re working with a lawyer or representing yourself. In fact, if you’re a litigant in person, you’ll likely have to do even more.
This programme helps you save time by guiding you step by step, so you’re not wasting hours googling, second-guessing, or making costly mistakes. It’s an investment now that saves you countless hours—and stress—later.
I’m not good at negotiating, I don't know how to stand my ground
That’s exactly why the D.O.S. Programme exists. You don’t need to be a natural negotiator to get a fair outcome. The programme teaches you simple, effective techniques to help you stay calm, confident, and in control—even if your ex is pushy, emotional or manipulative.
You’ll learn what to say, what to avoid, and how to handle pressure without being drawn into arguments or giving in too quickly. With the right tools and mindset, anyone can negotiate well—even a beginner.
This is a big investment, maybe I should save my money for a lawyer
It’s understandable to want to use your money wisely—and that’s exactly why the D.O.S. Programme exists. Lawyers typically charge £500+VAT per hour and bill for every phone call, email, and minute of their time. Just getting a solicitor to file your divorce application can cost thousands of pounds. Financial disclosure and negotiations alone? At least £5,000.
The content in this programme covers all those stages—and more—for less than the cost of four hours of a lawyer’s time. You’ll be equipped to handle the process confidently, use lawyers only when necessary, and save thousands in legal fees by avoiding common pitfalls and delays.
It’s not a cost—it’s a strategic investment that pays for itself many times over.
I'm scared, I don’t know if I’ll be able to ‘do it myself’
That’s exactly the point—you’re not doing this alone. The D.O.S. Programme isn’t a DIY kit, it’s a complete step-by-step guide with an experienced and qualified professional by your side throughout.
For the parts of the process that require expert advice, I’ll clearly highlight when and why you might want to make an additional investment, and explain the pros and cons, so you can make informed decisions before spending more.
Plus, you’ll have access to my curated directory of trusted professionals, from family lawyers to mortgage brokers—people I work with personally, so you’re not left guessing who to turn to.
How about taking a sneak peek inside?
Here’s one of the programme’s lessons, which will give you an idea of the type of information and guidance I share and how it will make everything clear as you proceed throughout your divorce.
By the time you're finished you'll know how to...
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In my clients' words
Frequently asked questions
Will I still need a lawyer if I join this programme?
In England and Wales, you can divorce without a lawyer—and many people do. The D.O.S. Programme is designed to help you understand the process and make informed decisions. Throughout the programme, I’ll flag key points where you might want to consult a solicitor, so you can choose whether it’s necessary for your situation. Either way, you’ll use legal support strategically—only when needed—which means you’ll spend far less on legal fees than if you relied on a lawyer from the start. The entire programme costs less than four hours with a solicitor, so you’ll likely make your money back quickly through what you save.
What happens if I need extra help?
You won’t be left on your own. That’s the whole point of this programme: to be by your side and guide you through this complex process. If you have questions, you can post in the programme’s private WhatsApp group, join our weekly Q&A sessions, or book a private coaching session with me. You get two private coaching sessions included and one free session with a financial adviser.
Throughout the programme, I will highlight specific times where you might want to bring in other professionals. This will help you get the technical support you need, when you need it, without wasting your money.
Can I remain anonymous?
You won’t be left on your own. That’s the whole point of this programme: to be by your side and guide you through this complex process. If you have questions, you can post in the programme’s private WhatsApp group, join our weekly Q&A sessions, or book a private coaching session with me. You get two private coaching sessions included and one free session with a financial adviser.
Throughout the programme, I will highlight specific times where you might want to bring in other professionals. This will help you get the technical support you need, when you need it, without wasting your money.
What if I start the programme and decide this isn’t for me?
No problem, you have 14 days to change your mind and receive a refund (see T&Cs for details).
I also offer the option to start with purchasing Module 1 individually before committing to the full programme in order to give you a chance to try it.
What if negotiations fail and we end up in court?
There’s an entire lesson in the programme dedicated to what to do if negotiations stall—including alternatives to court that are often faster, cheaper, and less stressful. But even if your case does go to court, the D.O.S. Programme remains highly relevant.
That’s because 95% of court cases still settle before a judge makes a final decision—which means you’re still negotiating, just within a legal framework. The tools, strategies, and guidance in the programme will help you navigate those negotiations with confidence, whether inside or outside the courtroom.
You won’t be starting from scratch—you’ll already be prepared.
What are your qualifications and how can I trust you?
I hold a Masters in Law and spent over 17 years in the corporate world leading high-stakes, complex negotiations. I’m also a fully accredited CDC Certified Divorce Coach with years of experience helping people successfully navigate divorce in England and Wales.
On top of that, I’ve been through the process personally—and learned the hard way the mistakes to avoid and the cracks in the system. I created this programme to give you the clarity, strategy and confidence I wish I’d had.
I’ve been separated for a long time—will this programme still be useful to me?
Absolutely. The D.O.S. Programme is for anyone going through divorce, regardless of how long you’ve been separated. If you’re now looking to agree financial and parenting arrangements and make things official, this is exactly what the programme is designed to support.
In fact, having been apart for a while can often make negotiations less emotionally charged, giving you a better chance of reaching a clear and fair agreement. The modules will guide you through every step to formalise your situation and give you the peace of mind that comes with being legally and financially untied.