Emilie contacted me because she wanted to move back to France with her children, but her ex husband was refusing to engage in any meaningful discussion. What initially felt like a complete deadlock required patience, structure and a clear focus on the children’s wellbeing.
Together, we worked through an escalation ladder, gradually moving through new options to reach an agreement, while keeping conflict under control and avoiding court. We leveraged my Long-distance parenting plan template to document tiered proposals that aligned with both her and her ex husband’s priorities, while keeping the children firmly at the centre. The process involved nearly a year of direct negotiations and mediations, with several moments where it seemed we had reached deadlocks.
By focusing on balanced and creative solutions — including how time could be re-balanced through holidays and longer stays — we were able to move away from a seemingly binary “yes or no” international relocation question. This careful and managed approach ultimately led to an agreement that allowed Emily to relocate to France successfully, while preserving a workable and child-focused co-parenting arrangement.
In Emilie’s words:
“Working with you brought structure and stability at a time when everything felt unpredictable. Your guidance was precise, your explanations were straightforward, and you consistently helped me understand each step without adding to the pressure. You were available, attentive, and always ready to provide direction when things shifted unexpectedly, even between sessions. Your combination of expertise, consistency, and genuine care turned a chaotic period into something I could manage with confidence. I’m sincerely grateful for the way you accompanied me throughout this process, and I would strongly recommend your support to anyone who needs reliable, steady, and thoughtful guidance. Merci Chloé !”