Preparing for divorce

Are you getting ready to divorce but have no idea where to start?

"Thank you Chloe! You gave calm advice and helped me navigate myself through the lowest point. I wish I had come to you earlier in the process. "

Jennifer Young, British national living in France

Strategic divorce planning

I help you set clear and realistic goals - from finances to children - and focus on what matters most to you.

The preparation stage of a divorce is often one of the most stressful moments—you are about to make a life-changing decision. Yet it is also a critical phase. How well you prepare now will largely determine whether the process stays on track or descends into conflict, delay, and costly legal quagmires.

Together we work on developing your personal divorce plan in order to:

✔ give you a clear understanding of the road ahead, so you know what to expect and feel less overwhelmed by uncertainty

✔ ensure you understand all the options, enabling you to make informed, intentional decisions at every stage

✔ keep you firmly in the driver’s seat, with a clear roadmap that reflects your priorities and guides your approach throughout the process

✔ help you avoid costly and hard-to-undo mistakes, reducing the risk of conflict, delays, and legal quagmires.

👉 My coaching sessions can be conducted in French and/or English to accommodate your most comfortable language.

Need help deciding whether to divorce or separate?

I work with my clients to support them through the decision-making process, helping them gather the information they need to be able to make an informed decision and understand its possible ramifications, but also exploring alternatives to divorce if the relationship still has a chance of surviving.

Not sure how to initiate the divorce process?

The first step will be to assemble the right divorce team. I will help you decide which professionals you want to work with given your divorce objectives and share with you my extensive list of global professional contacts. Together, we can discuss how to select the right team for your divorce.

Wondering how you tell your spouse and children?

It is essential to carefully prepare for how you will tell your spouse or partner about your decision, as this will set the tone for the rest of the divorce. Similarly, the way you present the divorce or separation to your children will have a significant impact on how they experience it, now and in the future.

Unsure how to prepare for your divorce ?

Together, we will work through the information you will need to gather and arrangements you will need to make to be prepared on day one. We will develop a bespoke divorce plan so you have a clear roadmap and remain in the driver’s seat throughout.

Are you at that critical juncture where you’ve decided to divorce but don’t know where to start? This book is for you.

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In my clients' words

Chloe is even more experienced than I thought. It's an amazing opportunity to be able to ask her all my questions directly - it's faster, easier and more effective than going through solicitors.

M.B.Ukrainian national living in the UK

The first session with Chloe was already amazing: very inspiring, reassuring and with pragmatic tips for a difficult conversation planned. I started our call really anxious and ready to drop everything and Chloe helped me to regain confidence and prepare for the conversation. She also proactively followed-up which was greatly appreciated.

LaureFrench national living in the UK

Thank you Chloe! You gave calm advice and helped me navigate myself through the lowest point. I wish I had come to you earlier in the process. Highly recommended!

Jennifer YoungBritish national living in France

I wish we could talk all the time! The parenting plan help was really invaluable. Chloe has extensive experience with parenting plans, including long distance parenting plans and strategy which you need in addition to legal support from a lawyer.

JenniferUS national living in Canada

Chloe […] equipped me with the confidence and skills to communicate effectively with my ex-partner, managing conflicts adeptly. Through practical tools and role plays, she prepared me for high-pressure conversations, ensuring better outcomes.

GaryAustralian national living in England

Personalised support

Self-guided programme

Long distance parenting support

International divorce