How formal do my child arrangements need to be on divorce?

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When parents separate, deciding how to arrange life for the children is often one of the most important—and emotionally charged—tasks. But just how formal do these arrangements need to be?

In this episode, I’m joined by Rachel Donald, a partner, mediator, and collaborative lawyer at Russell Cooke in London. With over 15 years’ experience advising both national and international clients, Rachel offers clear and practical guidance on the legal and personal considerations involved in agreeing arrangements for children after divorce.

We discuss:

🔹 The difference between a Child Arrangements Order and a Parenting Plan in terms of legal status and enforceability

🔹 What parents should consider when choosing between a formal order and an informal agreement

🔹 The “no order principle”—and what a parent must demonstrate to obtain a court order

🔹 Why some families avoid formal documentation altogether, and what risks that might carry

🔹 The pros and cons of formalising arrangements through court

🔹 When an existing Parenting Plan might not be enough

Whether you’re aiming for a court order or hoping to resolve things amicably, this episode is packed with essential insights to help you move forward with confidence.

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