Coparenting and moving on

You've split up but your ex is still driving you crazy and you're struggling to move on?

"Chloe's assistance extended well beyond emotional balance—she equipped me with the confidence and skills to communicate effectively with my ex-partner, managing conflicts adeptly. [...] She prepared me for high-pressure conversations, ensuring better outcomes."

Gary, Australia

Settling into your new family model

Let's set you up for success so you can focus on the next chapter of your life.

People often think that the experience of divorce ends after the final decree is sealed by the court. Unfortunately, even if you never have to see your ex again, the impacts of divorce are often felt for many years afterwards:

✔ strained communication with your ex

✔ disagreements about your child arrangements

✔ new partners and step-siblings entering the picture

✔ ongoing intrusion and controlling behaviour from your ex

✔ difficulties moving on with your life.

As time passes, your divorce support system might have dwindled away and you may feel more lonely than ever in overcoming the challenges of your new life. This isn’t just theory, it’s personal experience as well. I have been successfully coparenting with my ex for over 10 years, both locally and long distance. I am also a step-mum to my post-divorce partner’s children, so I know first-hand how challenging it can be.

Struggling to recover from your divorce experience?

We will work together to help you reconnect with your core values and define your new life . No matter what difficulties you are facing (financial, emotional, self-confidence, difficulty moving on…), we will build strategies to rebuild your resilience and set you up for the fulfilling life you deserve.

Facing ongoing challenges with coparenting?

Effective coparenting is a recurring challenge for anyone who has children with their ex, and the most common source of arguments. We will work through your coparenting challenges and identify levers you can pull to improve your relationship with your ex and preserve your children’s best interests.

Are changes in circumstances affecting your arrangements?

It is not uncommon for couples to have to revisit their child arrangements a few years later, especially if significant changes occurred such as someone getting remarried, losing their job or moving abroad. You can come to me individually or as a couple to discuss required amendments to your arrangements and reach an updated agreement.

Struggling to apply the terms of your agreements?

Despite having financial and child arrangements in place, there might be disagreements about the terms of your divorce for many years after it is finalised. We will explore how you manage these conflicts in a constructive way so that everyone is clear on the terms of the agreements and is fully signed up to both the rights and responsibilities they stipulate.

Do you and your ex live far apart?
Use my Long Distance Parenting Plan template

Free resources

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A guide to handling Christmas gifts after divorce

Avoiding financial mistakes in your second marriage

When your ex uses the children as messengers

In my clients' words

Chloe is even more experienced than I thought. It's an amazing opportunity to be able to ask her all my questions directly - it's faster, easier and more effective than going through solicitors.

M.B.Ukrainian national living in the UK

The first session with Chloe was already amazing: very inspiring, reassuring and with pragmatic tips for a difficult conversation planned. I started our call really anxious and ready to drop everything and Chloe helped me to regain confidence and prepare for the conversation. She also proactively followed-up which was greatly appreciated.

LaureFrench national living in the UK

Thank you Chloe! You gave calm advice and helped me navigate myself through the lowest point. I wish I had come to you earlier in the process. Highly recommended!

Jennifer YoungBritish national living in France

I wish we could talk all the time! The parenting plan help was really invaluable. Chloe has extensive experience with parenting plans, including long distance parenting plans and strategy which you need in addition to legal support from a lawyer.

JenniferUS national living in Canada

Chloe […] equipped me with the confidence and skills to communicate effectively with my ex-partner, managing conflicts adeptly. Through practical tools and role plays, she prepared me for high-pressure conversations, ensuring better outcomes.

GaryAustralian national living in England