Divorce Differently
with Chloe Oudiz
with Chloe Oudiz
I help you separate without going to war.
✔ Certified Divorce Coach®
✔ Specialist in international divorce
✔ Award-winning coach
✔ Sessions in French or English
👉 My coaching sessions can be conducted in French and/or English to accommodate your most comfortable language.
Why work with me ?
You wish it was already over—you could move on with your life, knowing your children and your finances are safe… Let’s get you there!
Divorce Differently is a proven method to separate out of court:
✔ without the conflict
✔ without huge costs
✔ without uncertainty.
It keeps you in the driver’s seat with a clear step-by-step process from start to end, so your divorce doesn’t spiral out of control.
"I wish now that I’d involved you earlier in my divorce proceedings, as I could have saved myself a lot of time and money in legal fees"
Alexandre, Franco-American national living in the UK
What are you struggling with right now?
Expat & international divorce challenges
Feeling lost navigating the additional challenges of international divorce?
Feeling lost about how to kick things off
Are you getting ready to divorce but have no idea where to start?
Stuck in a seemingly endless process
Struggling to negotiate fair settlements without reaching deadlocks?
Co-parenting with a difficult ex
You've split up but your ex is still driving you crazy...?
About me
I am a fully Certified Divorce Coach® and I help people negotiate robust agreements out of court, even when they are dealing with a difficult spouse.
I’m a Franco-American mum of two pre-teen girls, and I’ve spent nearly a decade helping people navigate separation — especially when it involves more than one country.
I’ve personally experienced divorce in two very different ways — once amicably, and once involving multiple jurisdictions and complete communication breakdown. Needless to say, I understand first hand the emotional, practical and international complexity.
Beyond my ability to relate to the challenges of divorce, my clients choose to work with me because of my extensive professional experience, skills and training:
- I hold a Masters in Law and know the ins and outs of the legal system
- I have worked with 100’s of families navigating separation (including my own)
- I use a tested method to keep you out of court and reach negotiated settlements
- I am specifically trained in negotiation skills and conflict de-escalation techniques.
In my clients' words
Chloe is even more experienced than I thought. It's an amazing opportunity to be able to ask her all my questions directly - it's faster, easier and more effective than going through solicitors.
M.B.Ukrainian national living in the UK 
The first session with Chloe was already amazing: very inspiring, reassuring and with pragmatic tips for a difficult conversation planned. I started our call really anxious and ready to drop everything and Chloe helped me to regain confidence and prepare for the conversation. She also proactively followed-up which was greatly appreciated.
LaureFrench national living in the UK 
Thank you Chloe! You gave calm advice and helped me navigate myself through the lowest point. I wish I had come to you earlier in the process. Highly recommended!
Jennifer YoungBritish national living in France 
I wish we could talk all the time! The parenting plan help was really invaluable. Chloe has extensive experience with parenting plans, including long distance parenting plans and strategy which you need in addition to legal support from a lawyer.
JenniferUS national living in Canada 
Chloe […] equipped me with the confidence and skills to communicate effectively with my ex-partner, managing conflicts adeptly. Through practical tools and role plays, she prepared me for high-pressure conversations, ensuring better outcomes.
GaryAustralian national living in England 
"Chloe helped me navigate a situation that I thought was a dead-end. She also empowered me and helped me take critical decisions that saved me thousands of pounds on litigation. I wish I had used her services earlier."
Post-divorce motherChinese citizen living in the UK 
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